Emotions and Decisions

Emotions -

I asked if you could keep them in a box and choose the particular one for every moment. I know it is not a thing that can be stored. But it is just a thought.

What if you could do it…?

I say even if you can not store them like that, you can pile them up at the back of your mind or heart – whatever suits you the best and then bring out the right one at the right moment. I think you can do it.

Can you…?

The decision is yours as always because you are the perfect judge of your life. Others are just co-passengers who are traveling along to reach their particular destinations the way you are trying to hold out yours. Some can be friendly at times to you or maybe not. Either way, people around leave their pieces of advice in one way or another for you a few times in conformity to the experiences they have had. You may take it or not.

They might have the ability to understand. But, no one can feel for you. So, the answer to everything always remains in your lap.

Since I am keen to talk about emotions, I would also touch a little bit about the decision- making process here.

Yes, emotions are directly proportional to decisions. That is why we link our mistakes to our intuitions.

In my understanding, we all know about it yet never give proper thought to it even if it is a must. It is transparent that if you are not emotionally satisfied, you are not capable of deciding what is of the best interest for you in the long run.

Often, we take steps on some aspects emotionally that do not turn out in our favor to become our regrets.

There is a  need to leave the emotions to think clearly to avoid disappointments later. It is similar to the way we should not link our personal life with our profession.

Now, I know it is not easy for everyone. There could be no other reason that this happens to us other than being human. Am I right or not…?

You can decide that later.

Everybody has their definition and way of understanding things.

Find your right path and follow it.

But, before everything falls and you have nothing to be emotional about, you must start thinking in a more practical way to lead your lives to a better future.

Sometimes, emotions are important while deciding on something. We must take some time to differentiate the facts where emotions are essential or not. Only then we can put our minds in the right direction. The way you can’t decide on your career because of your emotions; you can’t make your final call on most things only based on how you feel.

I know certain things in life are not so easy to let go that we must. Keep the do’s and don’ts separately to look for the answers.

Emotions are a necessity. Without them, we would be robots. We all know anything too much isn’t right. It is similar to habits distinguished harmful to health as drinking, smoking, and others. We know if done in excess, it affects our health directly. Many of us still do it. Some get addicted or not. Likewise, being emotional isn’t wrong if it is not affecting us in any way. After all, emotions help us feel and understand life in a different way. All we need to learn is to keep the tracks parallel to run the marathon of life.

Be emotional but don’t let it get heavy on your head.

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