Rediscover Yourself

I do not know what to write specific. (I tried to sum up with a hope it is okay.)

There are days when you go blank. It feels like the days where you find everything meaningless. These are the times when you try to locate yourself. But you look in the mirror at a useless creature instead. The feelings are lost somewhere else.

As there are good and bad days, I believe there are worse of them too. And let me tell you these worst feelings can not take you anywhere. They can only make you lie on the beds or couches. This time could be more beneficial if you do not dump it.

Thoughts created inside those heads can either help or destroy us. At such lost times, one must try to identify what’s the best for him or her.

Well, nothing is easier said than done. Huddles come automatically in our way like a necessity. The way humps are required to maintain the speed of vehicles on the road, break downs in life are needed to keep us on track. They are mandatory to help us pause and realize the meaning of life. Yes, we can consider these interruptions in two ways. Some may go down reasoning their life is over. Others might choose this chance to change their course to move forward. Either you win or learn.  

I would also say that winning should not be given all the pressure. It takes away the real power from you. Focusing on nourishing by each step must be put to thought. It helps to grow through what you go through. And this is more appropriate to look at your growth. 

Again, like the worse times, there are best of them too. Only if one tries to locate them, it gets a lot easier to distinguish. Healing through the worst of times takes a lot away from us. The best times must be dealt with to remind us of every pain involved to reach the happiest moments. As they say, don’t count the days, make the days count. 

Go along with every kind of time that comes as you go through each of the weather. You may not like all the climates. But you prepare yourself for every one of them. Similarly, make yourself ready to walk through every rain, snow, heat, spring, or whatever is there to come in your journey. You might never know which one’s your favorite until you wander through them.

Change is a must. I insist on this because I get bored with the same routine. I don’t feel there’s any fun to have the same kind of atmosphere. Similarly, you should not get used to one part of life as it is not helpful in the long run. You must be capable of addressing all the possibilities and lacks. 

Let me share a secret I have no clue about how to talk in real. It might seem unbelievable for a few who might think a person who writes pages on life says so. But it is true as every sad part of life is. Maybe that’s too much or not. I would say there’s a lot to reconsider. So I would not ask to rethink only about your life but about everything related to you.

I have been writing to keep going with whatever life throws at you. Many of them talk about keep moving. Yet, I am also trying the same. It is not because I don’t believe every fact explored already.

I would also mention it is not possible if you don’t accept it and move on. Of course, nothing falls by itself in our laps. Neither your happiness is locked up somewhere nor established if not looked in the right direction.

To put your feet on the path taken by many is no different than walking the footsteps of elders. The one wishes to attain to get stuck in at least one of the minds met. It is the only way to bring out the difference. You do what you intend you to do with a little innovation. The beauty of your mind is the only key to draw the image on the streets you pass.

If you wonder, I took my learning. I may or may not have failed. Who knows…?

Neither I nor anyone else can figure that out. The only part of us that others can see is how the topmost position became ours. Or on the other hand, they watch our failures like a blockbuster show. They forget to visualize the efforts and emotions behind it. And no one is left behind in the amusement.

If you take my advice, wasting all of yourself where you are not going to get anything should be blocked.

• Take rest and come back. Always make sure that the comeback is stronger than the setback.
• Realign the things that have fallen off the grid.
• Make sure to put an effect on your every dream as the bullet points noted on a sheet of paper.
• Find something to listen, to read, to look up to, or any such thing. You may also work out and let the bad vibes go away with the sweat. Do anything but make it count.
• Choosing excuses to go for all the random stuff will hit you hard one day.

You must know nothing is going to stop you if you don’t want to.

Because

When you fail, they despise you.

And

When you win, they disguise you.

It is you and will always be you to know how you became who you are.

Your story revolves like every other. The difference is not your surroundings, your color, height, or any such thing. As mentioned before, the difference is you. Hold the pen and create the best for yourself.

Because

It’s you writing your own story.

So, why not try to make it worth publishing.