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Mindset is everything

Well, here we are again today. I hope I gave you something to think about earlier.  If not, maybe this might help. So, let’s go a little further to keep moving.

Keep it in mind always.


Before I say anything, let’s see what ran through my brain today-

I wish I could always remember what runs either in my heart or mind because every time I try to reconnect some of the moments, I get lost. And it isn’t a good feeling at all.

I wish I knew the place between nowhere and here so that I could travel past it.

I wish the judgments could be unheard so that I could walk through it.

I wish the unknown could be known so that I could learn from it.

I wish that things could become easy for once so that I could inhale the air of happiness through it.

I wish the time could be stopped so that I could live more of it.

I wish they could have listened so that I made them see through it.

 

There’s so much one can wish or ask for. But, we always end up over-thinking about the things that didn’t happen in our favor.

Why is it so difficult to pray for well being of the loved ones, especially the family...? seek forgiveness for the pain caused...?

All one wishes is for everything now and then, knowingly.

I hope you understand and wish for what’s worth it.

I know it isn’t easy to do all this.

I may agree there are thousands of books written and more will get published about the way to see life. There are a lot of ways described to use by so many different people all around the world.  I agree that some of them help. Although, everyone has a different perception about the lives they want to lead. So they only digest what their mechanism of brain agrees to from everything they read, hear or see.

But I have learned one thing that it isn’t easy to smile with all the pain and stop doubting every step on the path. It does take a lot of effort to keep moving ahead each time with every fall. Believe in yourself. It isn’t that hard. Try smiling. Later, set up your mind. A sense of self-worth and achievement is always integral to the normal functioning of the brain. You will always have the result of your effort. So stop wasting your energy. Instead of nagging the things that didn’t work out, put in all your power in achieving all you still can have. After all, there is no gain without a little pain.

Moreover, why do we even forget that humans are messy, chaotic, and illogical creatures ….?


Remember that mindset is everything because thinking over and over again doesn’t help. 
Go by the flow and let things happen because you may never know what is coming through your way. 



 

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