Make the difference

 I have talked about:-

• Keep Moving
• Mindset is everything
• Everything happens for a reason
• God helps those who help themselves
• Things fall in place when meant to be
• Respect other's feelings
• Give and Take
• Believe in yourself
• Things always work out

All of the above quotes can make a difference if you believe in them. I don’t think these can be defined to strike at each mind reading them. Most of us read and forget as it is a part of human nature. But it’s okay.

All of this can work as a reminder only.

The human brain does not function to remember each and everything as it is. The memories created during childhood become a part of long term memory. I have written before that brain is completely memory-biased. We take in all which is similar to the stuff already formed in the head. The other gets deleted and never becomes a part of our formation. That is why it is essential as a child to nurture well. It could be a long conversation to have on how the brain works. 

Summarizing, I would say that it is necessary to have a suitable environment to make our brain work better. We have all heard that people usually say about the children who get into wrongdoings that they might not have proper parenting. It is scientific. The brains work as they learn from the world they see. You can’t put all the blame on the persons who you think haven’t done well for themselves or the ones who get into bad things. Without knowing how those people became who they are today, it is not a good idea to judge them. Nothing works permanently. Along with parenting, the outer environment also plays an important role. So consider the facts equally.

I may not be sure if I am giving you something useful to read. I am just playing my part in sharing what I have learned so far.

It makes me wonder to tell you more about what I have already said, but it may be a lot for now.

Let me just put my words:-

You desire what matters

You plan what you dream

You fear what haunts

You think what you listen

You hide what hurts

You imagine what you feel

In all of this, you are playing your role.

And life brings you what your destiny holds.

I wanted to bring in notice one more time that it is all you in every character you become.

On the other hand, I want you to go to flashback and think of whom you were and who you are now. If you find progress, you must know how you have come so far. And if you don’t like who you have become now, take a step back and consider it a story you would not want to tell yourself again. Then, explain yourself to write your chapter again to turn it into a better ending.

Please ask yourself to believe in yourself and start doing one thing at a time.

Go for another book if you don’t find this happening. You have it within you. Find a new beginning. Clear the feelings that should not be important for what is yet to come. The experiences must be taken as learning if you want to grow. It would help you not to fall back where you were. Repeating the mistakes will not let you climb the mountains ahead. If you want to reach where you see yourself, you have to take steps to make it work.

It is all you in the end.

Struggle and emerge.

If you don’t go for what you want, you’ll never have it.

If you don’t ask, the answer is always no.

If you don’t step forward, you’re always in the same place.

Remember, life goes on.

Walk the path like you have been doing.

Have faith and be patient.

Something is always better than nothing.

The good always keeps you waiting.

Don’t lose hope while you keep going.

Always, remember who you are.

(P.S. - Keep Moving)